The main challenges in Anton and Edith's relationship stem from Edith's emotional struggles, including her past suicide attempt, low self-esteem, and fear of being pitied, as well as societal prejudices of early 20th century Denmark. Anton, a compassionate but conflicted cavalry officer, struggles with his feelings and the fear of social judgment, which complicates their ability to openly express love and build a family together.

Anton comes from an impoverished family and seeks to restore his family's honor by joining the elite dragoon cavalry. His desire for honor and social acceptance motivates his actions, including his initial embarrassment upon discovering Edith's paralysis and his efforts to make amends by visiting her regularly and supporting her recovery, as encouraged by Edith's father and her physician.

Edith's family, particularly her father the Baron and her cousin Anna, play significant roles. The Baron is protective and worried about Edith's future care, inviting Anton to visit her to lift her spirits. Anna is a loving cousin who supports Edith emotionally. Their presence highlights Edith's privileged yet constrained social position and influences the dynamics between Edith and Anton.

The film portrays societal expectations and class through the lens of early 20th century Danish society, where Edith, despite her privilege, is viewed as lesser due to her disability and emotional struggles. Anton, from a less wealthy background, faces pressure to uphold family honor and conform to military and social norms. These pressures create barriers to their relationship and personal happiness.

Anton's compassion is central to the story; it initially causes him to pity Edith, but over time it grows into genuine love. His kindness contrasts with the harsh social environment and his own military role, which he is ill-suited for. His compassion ultimately defines his character and the emotional core of the film, highlighting themes of empathy and human connection amid adversity.